Shining a Light on Coercive Control
This week FWIN had the privilege of attending a Domestic Abuse Awareness event hosted by Dove House’s Women’s Advocacy Project at St. Mary’s Youth Centre. This powerful event brought together community members, organisations, and advocates to raise awareness of Domestic Abuse.
Understanding Coercive Control
At the heart of the event was a focus on the growing concern around coercive control, a form of domestic abuse where perpetrators use emotional and psychological manipulation to dominate and isolate their victims. Coercive control includes tactics such as isolating the victim from family and friends, monitoring movements, controlling finances, and instilling fear and dependency. Often invisible to the outside world, the effects of coercive control can be devastating and long-lasting.
Since 2020, 24 women have been violently killed in Northern Ireland. In at least 20 of those 24 deaths, the killers—or suspects—were well-known to the women. Tragically, in these cases, the accused include husbands, partners, ex-partners, brothers, sons, friends, and even grandsons. These figures underscore the heartbreaking reality that, for many women, the danger often comes from someone close to them.
Legal Protections in Northern Ireland
Thankfully, coercive control is now recognised as a criminal offense in Northern Ireland under the Domestic Abuse and Civil Proceedings Act (Northern Ireland) 2021. This law gives law enforcement the power to prosecute individuals who use emotional and psychological abuse to dominate their victims, even if there is no physical violence involved. The legislation reflects the growing understanding that domestic abuse takes many forms and that non-physical abuse can be just as harmful as physical violence.
Hearing from the PSNI
During the event, representatives from the PSNI (Police Service of Northern Ireland) explained the exact process they follow when a report of domestic abuse, including coercive control, is made. They shared valuable insights into the steps taken to ensure victims are supported from the moment they come forward. The PSNI works closely with support services to provide a safe pathway for victims, from the initial report to follow-up care and legal action. Their message was clear: no one should feel alone or unsupported in facing abuse, and early intervention can be key to preventing further harm.
Where to Get Help
If you or someone you know is experiencing coercive control or any form of domestic abuse, it’s crucial to know there is help available. Dove House and Women’s Aid offer confidential support, advice, and resources to help navigate these difficult situations. Their services are free and tailored to meet the needs of individuals affected by abuse.
Dove House Women’s Advocacy Project
T: 02871 269327
E: advocacy@dovehousecommunitytrust.org
Foyle Family Justice Centre
7-9 Bishop Street
DERRY/LONDONDERRY
BT48 6PL
T: 02871 416 800
E: info@foylewomensaid.org
Looking Ahead
Dove House’s Domestic Abuse Awareness events continue in November, where more in-depth discussions and support will be available for those affected by coercive control and other forms of abuse. Keep an eye on their social media platforms for upcoming details.
Together, we can break the cycle of coercive control and ensure that no woman feels trapped or powerless in her own life. Whether it’s through education, awareness, or direct support, every action helps.
